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deadmanswill | Menstruating women disgust gods! |
| Category-Religion | Published On-August 15, 2008 11:06 | Views-119 | Replies-11 |
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How does a woman become ‘impure’ during her menstrual cycle? Would anybody spare me if I insult a woman by asking her to stay away from me or from the workplace just because she is menstruating? I would probably sued or, more likely, beaten within inches of my life by the family or friends of the woman! Then why do millions of women bear the same insult when it is meted out by religion and its edicts? Even today, Hindu women in most rural areas are made to sit out of their homes during the entire four day period of her menstruation. What’s even astonishing is women in urban areas are meted out similar insult by other women and men. Though the scenario is not as worse as that in rural and semi-urban places, the discrimination is nevertheless there. Women are not allowed to enter places of worship, they cannot perform pujas, they should not touch others or articles until they have had their bath, they cannot enter the kitchen or cook before their bath. If menstruating women touch any other people or are touched by other people, those people become ‘impure’ too and they are meted out similar insult and discrimination. Islam religion holds very similar laws and menstruating women are prohibited from entering mosques, they cannot read Quran, and so on. There is a similar law in Christianity that considers menstruating women as ritually unclean. Are the gods disgusted by the blood women shed during menstruation? Would Vishnu, Shiva, Christian God or Allah cringeand curse women when they perform puja during their menstruation? I have personally seen women taking pills to postpone their menstruation period so they could perform certain rituals and pujas! Does anybody know the side effects of taking such pills could even be infertility? Or do these women not consider the drastic hormonal imbalance triggered by these dangerous pills? And yet many mothers and mothers-in-law encourage their daughters and daugthers-in-law to pop these pills so they would not miss out on rituals at home and darshans in pilgrim centers. What kind of sick fucks are those priests and fatwa givers who decide what proper conduct is for women in religion? Nobody has a right to impose upon another individual and more so in matters as personal as belief and disbelief in god. And yet even in the 21st century we have superstitions that degrade women in the name of religion and nobody seems to be even bothered by it. This is one of the reasons why I personally hate religion and would be more than glad to erase religion out of this world for good. And by religion I do not mean the belief in god. Belief or disbelief in god is a very personal issue for every human being; whereas religion is the systematic sacrilege of human values in the name of peace, prosperity and morality. Can any of you point out the morality in the issue of menstruating women? Why cannot a woman enter a place of worship during her menstrual cycle? Why do you women bear the issue without any protest? Do you believe you really become ‘impure and untouchable’ during your menstrual cycles and that gods would be disgusted if you go near them during menstruation? |
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SangKam | hi bro', i have a question for u and don't mind for this one..., my question to u is tht, did the same situation aroused into ur life and were u ever against it or not, if it happened, why were u against it?? or if u were not against it, why were u not?..... | August 24, 2008 09:11 |
deadmanswill | hi Sangkam, perhaps you do not know my sex. I am male buddy, and males do not menstruate so far as I know. Anyway, ribbing aside, I assume you are asking if I faced this situation with women in my family. Of course, I did. How else would I know the issue and be so personally against it? And what do YOU think my reaction would have been, now that you have read my cutloose? My family is Hindu, though I am not. And my family does discriminate against menstruating women. My wife does not discriminate anyone anymore. I talked her out of it. But of course, others in my family continue it because I lacked the courage to speak the issue with my elders. I guess that is as straightforward a reply as you can get. And could you do the honors now by posing the same question to yourself and giving a reply, if you don't mind? Did you ever give this sort of discrimination a thought at all? | August 24, 2008 13:55 |
CassAmino | Yes, this is a sick fucking evil in the society. I am disgusted with this discrimination against women, and it clearly states that all the reveling that goes by terms like development, technological advancements, 'we live in a modern era, 'this is the age of reason' etc are crap. In the mindsets, a majority of people on earth are still primitive, crude, irrational, degenerating and sick. Thanks for posting this, am looking forward to see more people respond to this post. | August 28, 2008 07:57 |
Shilpa | Great post! Shame on this 'evil endorsed and effected by religion '. | August 28, 2008 08:40 |
SangKam | hi deadman, this is in reply to ur question for me; as u have mentioned tht u are marrried and after tht only u have got realised abt women being discriminated during their menstruation, and im sure tht one or the other day i will also be against it, may be tht happens to my wife, my sister or even any of my frns (gals).., but i am sure i shall burst out myself on our elders (and this is my word to u which i really mean it). definitely i am with the cutloose and not against it. | August 31, 2008 12:12 |
deadmanswill | @Sangkam, I think I believe you. I hopefully am preparing for a talk with my elders too. | August 31, 2008 13:04 |
SangKam | now tht sounds grt, my dear friend :-) | August 31, 2008 17:50 |
CassAmino | I just heard this stupid fucking story about why Hyderabad/Bhagyanagaram(meaning wealthy city) is a wealthy city. It seems during the Nawab's time, goddess Lakshmi visited the Nawab's palace and stood outside the palace. The errand boy there inquired who she was and goddess Lakshmi told the boy about her and said that she is in her "out days" - (as I heard from the person that told me)and wonders if the Nawab will entertain her entering the palace in such a condition. Now the errand boy carries this message to the Nawab and the Nawab doesn't want goddess Lakshmi to leave as she brings wealth to places she visits nor does he want to her to enter the palace. So what does he do to retain goddess Lakshmi? He kills the errand boy. So goddess Lakshmi waits eternally and Hyderabad is Bhagyanagaram, a wealthy city! | September 01, 2008 05:10 |
deadmanswill | Then I guess Lakshmi Devi (if ever there was one) is eternally 'out'. And the poor errand boy is permanently 'out' of this world. hehe | September 01, 2008 17:04 |
బూ | from what I heard, that guy ties her to one of the pillars of charminar with his turban and goes to the nawab. thats why you see a temple at charminar and there was never a day when shops near charminar were not crowded. | September 05, 2008 06:15 |
బూ | ^above was just FYI | September 05, 2008 06:15 |